Uhggggg

I was more mad that he was so irresponsible as to fall asleep, he didn’t apologize, and he didn’t clean it up

Yeah I’d be mad , for all of the above , more so his response to you after the fact , not ok

Does he talk to you like that often? That sounds abusive and gross. I’d peace out so quick because there is no reason to be a single mom while still in a relationship.

Girl after “sure what the fuck ever” he wouldn’t get enough peace to fall asleep for days.

I’m sorry he’s treating you this way! This is so abusive and toxic, you deserve so much better 🫶🏼

He spoke to you like that?! He’s a parent, it’s half of his role and responsibility and the other half is to be your partner. To help you, to care for you, to allow you to shower. He needs to wake up and be grateful of the life and family he’s blessed with, cause most women would have exploded on him for speaking like that (including me)

Also, use his card to replace the face products.

I would never let a man talk to me like that. That’s disgusting. Does he talk like that to you often?

“You have 5 seconds before I change my mind to get out”? I would have replied “you have 5 seconds to pack your stuff before I throw you out”.

@Svetlana 💯

So many things here.. the way he spoke to you. You had to ask him to watch his own kid and he couldn’t even do that without falling asleep and risking your child’s safety. Sounds like he wasn’t ready to be a parent and isn’t being a good partner either. This does not sound like a healthy relationship to be in.

I would be more annoyed at the way he spoke to you when you only asked him to watch his child for 5 mins while you had a shower. That is a disgusting response 🤨

Why are we putting up with that sort of crap I don’t understand 😩 there are nice men out there, please go and find one, you deserve 10000% better!!

🤦🏾‍♀️ I think you knew what we would say. I doubt this was his first time speaking to you like this. It’s not okay!!!

Throw this man in the trash. You're going to talk to me like that? The fuck? And then not even apologize for not watching him properly?

My husband would neverr. If anything he's the nicer, more patient parent. I love our son more than anything but I think my husband almost loves us both more than I love anything. Sometimes I feel sad because I must be ungrateful to feel anything but happy, especially after being on this app for a little while.

The fact he talking to you like that. Who cares if he bought it it’s not his and it was messed up. The way he talks to you tho would’ve had me using my fathers handed down strength on him

@Haley 💚 THIS! That’s it! You won’t be sleeping soundly baby! Promise lmao

Run 🏃‍♀️

What is wrong with some dads, you shouldn’t have to ASK for a shower - id say ‘I’m having a shower’ and leave the child with him and walk out and with that reaction he can have him all day AND clean up the mess he made. Why the hell does it always fall on the woman, and the dad ‘babysits’ hell no, my partner would already be helping!

You asked him to watch your child... I'm assuming it's his child too (right?)

Did you not know he was inconsiderate and rude before you had a baby with him?

Sorry I'm still stuck on 'I woke him up at 11', what parent stays in bed that late knowing your partner is downstairs with your child (unless he does nightshifts or something then fair play)

@Grace same, I mean my husband works nights and gets in at 6 or 7am but if I needed to have a shower he would have no problem with getting up to have a shower. And he would never even think to say that to me even if he was in a foul mood. He just sounds immature, rude and irresponsible.

i asked my husband to do this exact same thing. he said yes leave him he’ll be fine. when i turned off the water i heard my son crying but i didn’t think anything of it because he’s with his dad. i go out into the living room and my son (maybe 6 months at the time) is stuck between the two couches because he fell and his dad is asleep. then he got mad at me because i should’ve known better than to give him the child when he’s sleeping and not say anything.

If my husband spoke to me even half as rudely as that I’d be seriously ready to leave. Honestly. I mean it. I would have left. How dare he even think about talking to you like that. Disgusting behaviour.

He sounds manipulative x

After the whole you have 5 seconds comment, there would have been a war. 2 things I do not tolerate are being cursed at or being yelled at bc I don’t do it to him. I would have cursed him smooth out, took my baby in the bathroom with me for the shower and made so much noise for the rest of the day that there’s no way he would be able to sleep

Nah he on bs tf is his problem?? I woulda made him clean that shit up fr. Why he so bitter?? Match his energy while still staying humble sis. He wanna curse at you don’t even respond but make him clean it up next time. He don’t deserve your love or your time if he gone treat you that way. You ain’t make that baby by yourself

So, what's going to happen? Since this community has seen his nastiness and you experience it most likely on the regular, what is your plan?

Leave bro

I pressed the wrong thing 🤦‍♀️. I was supposed to vote the top one!!

HEEEELL NO

I think he was very rude. My husband would never talk to me like that. I also think it was a bit rude to wake him

@Sarah you think it was rude to wake him up at 11? My son wakes up at 7

You were not rude for waking him up at 11 AM to take a SHOWER. Sleep in with a toddler is a PRIVILEGE. My husband works nights many times and I allow him to sleep in and even like that he still makes sure to wake up in a decent time to help me out and spend time with his child.