@Rosechelle do you feel like it’s gotten better since you talked? I feel like I’m at the point where I’m done talking. We’ve had at least 3 conversations about this since she’s been born alone and she’s only 4.5 months. He changed briefly after we talk or an argument but then right back.
Ouuuff it’s hard to say whether it was our conversation or how I acted when he went back to his ways. I legit had to get a bit direct instead of beating around the bush and being real nice. I told it like it is and kept being vocal. And at times went silent. There’s still things we are working on especially since going back to work. It’s hard. Just let him know also the consequences of what happens not just to you but for him too.
@Rosechelle I can tell it’s bad because I’m a very direct person and I’m so exhausted with the conversations I’ve reverted to mute. I appreciate your input though. Thank you
Of course !!! I’m sorry this is happening to you
My boyfriend was kind of doing the same thing and it drained me as well. He’s gotten a little better since we’ve had a sit down and talk about how his actions have made me feel and I acknowledge that it may not be on purpose but it’s still happening and I’m still affected by it, so things are getting a little bit better.