@Aliyah very good advice. I will say in addition, based on what I notice with mine vs husband’s family, family dinner might be more of a tradition for some vs others. My mom-in-law thinks it’s sacred, while I grew up mostly eating separate with my brother while watching tv and honestly still love eating by myself watching a show. I make sure to do family time in other ways (walks, games etc) but if your husband is like me his gut reaction might just be that it’s not a big deal.
My man always plays chess on his phone and would be so mad if his score took a hit but also - grow up lol it’s a score for an online game and we are your real life family!! I totally get it
The years go quick with kids Does he really want to prioritise a game over experiences with his baby?
He needs to grow up to be honest. He's a lucky man to have a family to sit and have dinner with and he won't interact with you because his game is more important. It's pathetic. You're absolutely right in being annoyed.
Just bad timing. He needs to make sure he doesn’t start a chess game and instead, play with your child while you are cooking??????
He sounds childish af. I don’t have a dinner table in my apartment but if I did I’d made a strict no phones at the table rule. That should be reserved for family time. I tell ppl this all the time, remember you can’t raise a man. He wanna be childish ok whatever that’s on him. But don’t let him teach your kids that’s ok. And you definitely ain’t gotta put up with the bs either. Men nowadays wasn’t raised right it’s sad but true and a lotta them don’t wanna change even for they kids
Urgh I would be livid. My husband tends to always go for a cigarette when I tell him dinner is ready which drives me mad but we always eat together. I just have to wait a few mins for him, which isn’t so easy now I’m pregnant 😂
@Kathryn get used to it now because sign of things to come perhaps?
Tell him to play blitz next time before dinner 😉 fast games
I think the main issue is him starting the game when he knew that dinner would be ready soon.. He shouldn’t have started a live game in that moment, but maybe instead one where you can make a move like every 24h (I’ve also used online chess loads and so does my husband). He is right in saying that his score would be ruined if he’d have stopped; I know not to interrupt my husband if he’s in the middle of one of those games 😅 And I do understand that tbh / I don’t have an issue with it. But as I said, he started the game at the wrong time, which is on him.. Seems like a lack of foresight! I’d just politely ask him not to start a live game when he knows that family time is soon approaching.