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partner left home saying he is going to work left in uniform (sat morning) , he then said after work he will meet his friends that was fine, then after (sunday morning) that he rang saying he was at work again and he’s injured and going to a&e i started to not believe it so stopped replying he was just texting not calling.. then he said he’s finished in a&e and there’s another shift come up so he’s going to go so ignored that too now today just now he’s ringing saying he wants to confess and I was right he wasn’t at work he’s been partying with his friends from that day and he’ll show me videos problem is now he overspent to the point he can’t even get back home and asked if i could send him money (i don’t work and he does send me money) but that shouldn’t really matter tbh. We have one car and i’ve had to get buses with our two kids and also being 36 weeks pregnant and school runs to two different areas this morning just for him to come with this confession of his. Don’t even know what to do

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I definitely wouldn't send any money. Is he usually a complete liar?

Tell him he got himself into this mess he can get himself out of it. Make him deal with the consequences of his actions.

I wouldn't send money. He can figure it out, otherwise he'll continue to rely on having you as a back up plan. My mom said my dad was like this when she had my oldest brother. It took her leaving for 2 weeks for him to straighten himself out. Basically it was a you have to change to be part of this family, or you can continue to live like that away from us.