Men in this generation
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Men act this way because we stay with them and enable the behavior.
So I've dated a few shallow, selfish men, and I think I was just a placeholder for a trophy wife. I was fiercely independent financially and emotionally in relationships because of what you're saying but then I met my husband 🤷 he takes pride in being the provider, says he's supposed to be the stable, responsible one, that me raising our kids is everything and it's his responsibility to make that comfortable, and he even says women are meant to be more emotional etc. we don't use social media by the way. He says I'm the least shallow, most rational woman he's met (which is insane to me) but I also haven't had typical social media for years, had a fulfilling career before we met. I adore him, his whole family calls him the Golden child because he's so wholesome. I feel like I'm in a sick twilight zone episode sometimes but good men are out there!! Only took me 31 years to find one 🥲
@Daria 🧐
Boys in this generation! I’ve yet to find more men. I married one though and we had a baby at 22 after dating for 2/3 years. Like someone above mentioned, they’re all annoying in some or more ways lol you just got to find the annoying that matches yours 💕. Hang in there and don’t settle! When you find the one you’ll really know why everything else went south.
Absolutely 'Absolutely 'Absolutely they are. Have you express your concerns to him thou? Like...not in an annoyed, frustrated, and snappy way. But to sit down with him and spell it out in a calm conversation, especially that part about taking the load off your plate day to day in hopes to increase your self care and desire for intimacy in the relationship. They are all annoying. Even the loving and faithful ones can be annoying at times. But you MUST set your expectations and boundaries and enforce it, what are you will to let slide and what you're not...otherwise they just wont get it...especially if you decide to stay in the relationship regardless of some of the important things you mentioned...then some thing must be set in place!