Is this normal??

Is this normal for my partner who's addicted to weed.. and a cheating bastard • Rarely clean up behind himself whenever he does he always leaves something!!! When I tell him he catches an attitude • Cheat then take no actions to show accountability but the same day wants me to forgive him?! I think he's smoking crack. No flowers? Chocolate? Sounds like he meant it to me. Oh and also blaming me for him cheating with my friend • Be completely carless by trying to hold our baby after he's smoked (just washed his hands), leave toothpicks and lighters around the house and leave shit stains on the toliet, or leaves a hot drink on the side for our son to knock it over • Washes up but always leaves something dirty and puts the plates very hazardously on the drying rack and knives on the drying up rack where our son can knock it over • Always leaves dirty shoes in the living room when he comes in from a smoke Basically he has no consideration and is a child • Can't finish task he starts around the house e.g the tiling on the bathroom floor, fixing the toliet seat and putting the back on top of the tv unit I brought Is this normal?? Surely not..

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Yes, that's completely normal for a toxic waste of space. No it's not normal for a decent supportive loving partner. Things will never change at all, until the day you leave them and they're full of regret, promises to change, how much they love you... but it's all manipulation. Leave him, you don't need a fully grown man child who acts like you're his mother. X

No it’s normal behaviour but as Mel above said it’s normal for a toxic waste of space. Not quite sure why you’re with him to be honest, there are good people out there who can you treat you sooooooo much better! Trust me you’re way better off away from him. Protect your peace x

You can 100% find better. You’d probably actually find that despite being on your own as a single mother, life will be easier leaving him behind and doing it on your own. He don’t deserve you girl ❤️

It’s normal for him as he’s sounds lazy, inconsiderate and toxic. You need to leave him. Especially when he’s cheated on you multiple times it sounds like. In his mind you’re ok with him doing it because he “knows” you aren’t going to leave him, which is why he’ll continue to cheat, and never show you true appreciation. And he’s not sorry that he cheated so he’s not going to buy you the things you want because he’s a bare minimum kind of guy who thinks that’s enough. And you deserve someone who will show you AND give you the world, someone who is about action and not just words. Listen to what he does not what he says and he’s saying a whole lot to you rn, to the point where you gotta listen. And the fact that he sounds negligent when it comes to the kids and making sure that things aren’t out of reach or put up in a way where they won’t be a danger sounds like he doesn’t care to a certain extent. My boyfriend smokes weed but it doesn’t make you incapable of having basic common sense.

Cont. you deserve someone who respects you, who will put you first, who will love you the way you want to and need to be loved, and honey he ain’t it🤍. Someone out there will give you the world 🌍 because they want to see you smile not make you cry.

It’s his normal because you are allowing it. After every thing you have just listed, is this someone you really want to be with?

That's a list right there that I'm sure you can add more to. He sounds so lazy and very immature. You've obviously had enough and I take it this has been going on for a while? As Lisa said above its normal because you're allowing it. Do not let this continue to be the norm!

The question for me is why not wash your hands of him? Doesn't sound like someone that is healthy for you or you baby

Leave his ass you don’t need an extra child you need a man!

no ditch him tffff

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