Confession

Okay guys here’s the story. My husband and I have been together for 12 years. He has a porn addiction and was lying about it for years. Spent over 10k in credit card bills on it. Got pictures from my friends the list goes on. We are trying to make it work and have gotten a lot better but recently I saw an ex that I was in love with before him and I got all shy inside like we kept looking for each other. Meaning anytime I would look to see if he was still around I would see him from a far doing the same to me. Like he was purposely trying to find me. And not to say I want to be with him but what if that just proves I need to move on from my current relationship? I’m just confused. What would you do?

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Honestly. I’d leave. Because I wouldn’t feel fully true to my husband. At least if these feelings persisted. But it could also be due to him lying to you for so long.

If I still loved him, I’d give him and ultimatum. Me or the porn. Addiction to anything is harmful to a relationship and both parties need to work together to put a stop to it. (If you are just hurt and can’t ever forgive, I’d just leave.)

Maybe it’s sign it’s time to move on. 😊

I'd take it as a sign to move on. I mean porn addiction is bad enough, but 10 thousand pounds of debt due to wanting to see other women naked and some of them being your "friends"?! That's absolutely wild to me. He's no husband and they're not your friends. You deserve better

I know what your husband has done hurts you. Have you ever tried praying I don't if you have a relationship with God or not but regardless of that prayer and acceptance to Jesus in your marriage can help the Both of you drastically. It's definitely a try

Take it as a sign! It sounds harsh but addiction and debt is a lot of baggage that you don’t need, especially from someone who claims to love you. It’s a constant hurt that isn’t going to go away over night. Personally I would never be able to forgive my husband.

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