Omg lol sorry you can lead* a horse to water
Have you tried couples therapy ? Me & my husband did. It definitely helped him to open up to me about certain a things we would not have discussed.
@Yaya I offered, and he is so against it. I have been asking for over a year for something of the sort.
Hm, maybe start with a TikTok that explains how you feel or maybe a TikTok couple therapy that explains the general sense of what is going on that you don’t like and open up a space for him to talk without judgment just listen. And see where that goes. I send my husband TikTok’s all the time and he understands it better coming from TikTok than from me. 🤷🏾♀️
Like whenever you have like a comfortable mood for the both of you talk abiut his day.. etc you know then show him the TikTok or send it while he’s at work , and then don’t talk about it until you guys are comfortable talking about your , his day day etc etc then transition slowly to ask to talk about what he thinks about what you sent.
You can a horse to water but you can’t make them drink. Time to call it quits because he isn’t your responsibility. I mean as a partner yes but not this point. You deserve better. You deserve someone who works to be the best person they can be because they want to be their best for you! There is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting change if it’s growth within the relationship!