Found out I’m pregnant

So my bd and I are still together we have a 9 month old and he has a 6 year old (from past relationship) the mom moved across the country with the kid and we were sapossed to have moved to by now but for months it has been technical issues after each other and then I’ve been feeling really stressed and sick que finding out that I’m 31 weeks pregnant and we are hopefully flying out on Thursday depending on if the home inspection was completed properly but I’ve been warned about flying at 33 weeks or later because of how close the pregnancies are and he doesn’t seem to care about the fact I’m hormonal and stressed or anything and just gets mad at me for “only taking care of the baby” all day while he does the household stuff but that’s all he does he doesn’t do any diaper changes no naps and if my baby cries the littlest bit he’s freaking out because clearly I wasn’t watching him.

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So is the issue the flying while pregnant or that he has unrealistic expectations of you in general

@Elizabeth it’s just everything pilling on and me getting stressed out and him not understanding what I’m going through

Yeah that makes a lot of sense he really doesn’t seem to understand - is there a reason he doesn’t do diapers or naps or anything like that? He might be more understanding if he had to do it himself

@Elizabeth I don’t have anywhere near enough energy to get all the cleaning done

No no I didn’t mean you have to do the cleaning I just meant he could do some of the baby stuff too - and if he says it’s unfair offer to take like 1 cleaning task while he changes diapers or something that day

I know for a fact that you can fly anytime. I flew Delta at 36 miles to Europe. There’s no limitations but id fly before full term.

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