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Is it just me, or is it normal not to want sex after having a baby? Our daughter is 1 years old and some times we will go months without being intimate...
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Girl. We are tired. I get it. I still want to and we try to set aside time but it's hard. We are old

You are not alone. 🤍

Not just you for sure. It’s exhausting raising babies and normal to feel so.

You are not alone! I honestly feel the same way. I’m just so exhausted or just feel like I can’t get into the mood.

For me it’s just being so touched out by the end of the day, like I just need no one to touch me 😅

Thank yall so much for responding 💗

And I'm a stay at home mom, so yeah some days I'm exhausted..

@Danielle yess I agree lol

@Kyra yessss I'm telling you lol

@Amy yes I feel like I can't get in the mood for it either! I feel like i want it mostly when I'm ovulating

@Sarah thank you for this 🧡

I thought I was the only one!! Makes me feel so much better now lol. I feel the same way especially after a long day of home cleaning and cooking the kids it’s like u want to be left alone lol. I’ve tried but I get overstimulated and lose focus 😂😂 funny to hear it as I type lose focus but hey it does happen

@Marlet yess all the things lol I'm so glad that I'm not alone. I pray it doesn't cause any issues further, though. I don't think they understand all the things we have to do Cook, clean, laundry and fold clothes put them away. Etc and please them. Wake up when the baby cries.. lol 😆 I mean it's overstimulating tasks

I had my two babies 10.5 months apart. I’m tired 🤣🤣🤣 we do like maybe 3-4x a month. That’s a busy month.

@Alysia facts 😭🤣🤣🤣

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@Alysia i know for sure you're tired

It’s so normal, I personally did not feel like being intimate until my daughter was about 8 months old. Give yourself a break. 🤍🫂

Idk if it’s normal but same. I know my partner isn’t too thrilled about it but like I’m exhausted lol.

@Shannon yeah my husband isn't thrilled.

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