Why would that cause crying?
I am able to squeeze the nipple and the milk shoots out in a spray, my LG also used to choke on it quite a bit. If it is fast let down you can express the spray into a muslin and/or feed leaning back slightly. Once they get a bit older it is easier for them to manage.
My let down is really fast and my LC told me to lean back while I feed and it slows it down. I also have the baby more vertical than horizontal and that helps him too.
Thanks for the wonderful advice
Check if your baby has a tongue tie. Mine did and it was undiagnosed until week 8. Just got it released and still working on breastfeeding but it’s much better than before.