Do you think he is cheating?

Id say he's exploring, but has there been other signs he might be cheating?

@Kat I haven't found anything. Things are so easy to delete these days though. He doesn't go anywhere besides work, so i don't think he is physically cheating. I just feel he may be talking to someone he shouldn't be.

He's deff entertaining his ego maybe seeing if he's still got it ? Ooooooor maybe he might idk girl iam sorry !

@Angelina I don't know what to do! Even if he isn't cheating and I'm overreacting, I definitely feel like cheating is the next step.

Is he seeming more protective over his phone? Acting different otherwise? I sometimes have nights where I go looking at people I used to go to school with just to have a nosey, is it just women or men too? I wouldn’t be happy about the of profiles, but that’s due to it being a limit in my relationship x

@Chloe He isn't protective over his phone. However, he's different towards me. He's less intimate, doesn't do small things for me anymore, doesn't cuddle me as often as he used to. I don't know if those are signs or just the age of the relationship. With the girls from high school at first, I thought it was just being nosey. Now, it's looking at the same few profiles almost every week. I definitely don't like him looking at the OF profiles. It makes me feel really insecure, and I thought he understood that was a hard no for me. He didn't used to do that until recently.

Maybe try talking with gim and be like HEY! !!!! Wtf lol If he freaks out then maybe he's plotting something or maybe it's the thrill excitement he's using for his self pleasure idk I feel to me it's srill a form yes but don't listen to me lol

Hmm, it can be a sign of getting lazy in a relationship, depends how sudden that’s happened? I don’t see why he’d look frequently at the same profiles, that doesn’t make sense for a nosey in my opinion. Yeah I’m the same as you with only fans, it feels too personal for me, and the girls seem too accessible for my liking. Could you speak to him about this? See what he has to say for himself?

@Angelina i have talked to him about it twice. The first time he denied everything. I told him I had proof and he was a little shocked and didn't say anything else about it. I just left it because I thought it would stop since he was caught. This time I waited a while to say anything. This time he couldn't deny it because I saw his fb search bar when he was showing me something. He said he feels bad and he's sorry and he hates that he made me feel bad. He also claims he isn't talking to anyone. But I don't know if I believe him. He doesn't seem very genuine.

@Chloe It was pretty sudden. He has only started acting different in the last month or so. Which is when he stared looking up the corn stars fb pages. He's not physically on only fans, but he is looking at girls profiles on fb that have only fans. They post basically the same content only slightly more clothing. I'm just worried if he is constantly going to these profiles, how long will it be until he just transfers to their OF accounts.

I don’t like the fact that he’s suddenly changed how he acts with you or that it coincides with these searches, it does feel very fishy to me. Did he have any reason as to why he’s doing it or did he just apologise? I’m sorry you’re going through this, it’s shit x

@Chloe No, he didn't give me a reason. He just said he was sorry and that was that. He didn't say sorry for looking up the profiles either. Just that he was sorry for making me feel bad.

Why is he looking them up on social media, to see more photos or is he wanting to contact them, I feel like searching social media seems more intimate and making that person almost real. If he's not cheating then he may be tempted to cheat, is he bored in the relationship maybe? Is he okay to you otherwise

@Kat I'm not really sure why he is looking them up on social media. He claims their videos pop up in his reels, and sometimes they are funny, so he looks at the profile. I watched some of the videos. There's nothing comical about them. It's just these girls talking about their corn star jobs and back door sessions, and who wants to do me for money, type thing. Neither of us has ever been in a relationship this long, so in my opinion, I think he is getting bored and curious and may be getting ready to cheat. If he hasn't reached out to anyone yet, I think he is going to. And I agree. I think looking at fb profiles is too personal and makes them seem more real. He still treats me well, but he is different. Not as involved or intimate or there.

@Kat I’m a spicy worker and a ProDominatrix and the only time we would ever talk to anyone over social media is if the people contacting them were creators or other mutuals. 99% of online spicy worker and Dommes DO NOT engage on social media because most of the idiots who dm us via fb or IG are time wasters. We will not engage with anyone who is looking for services or content unless it’s on onlyfans (I personally don’t like of) or Loyalfans; meaning they only response they’ll get on social media is a automated response directing them to our fansites; he’s probably looking for their linkedtree links or AllMyLinks link, or beacons, milkshake etc because those have our spicy links.

@Ashley I wasn't sure, I guess it's a safe guard thing to because it's a line of work that you get paid for not to have them in your personal life as you have no idea who they are, which makes sense. I feel like men will try because they may sense that if they are like that online they are like that in real life and feel they may not get turned down, I wasn't sure if he was trying to seek only fans people or what..I only assumed he may seeking something and like you said maybe more content, I was just throwing out the idea he may seeking their personal accounts. I dont know though

@Kat no client will engage with an SWER or Dommes personal pages because we all use stage names or personas for instance mine is Demoness Magdalena and my government name is Ashley, I keep all my personal accounts private and separate from my work accounts, I take separate photos and videos that I post on my business page and I take new photos for my personal page because if you use the same photos for both clients and POT clients they can use reverse image search and find your personal accounts. We take great lengths to keep work separate from personal life due to safety concerns. Getting doxxed is a problem but we take great measures to ensure that doesn’t happen. The pages of cornstars, SWERS, DOMMES etc that you see on fb are our advertisement pages, teaser pages. We do not engage with males or females looking to be clients on our business social media pages because that’s what the fan sites are for; why talk to a male for free on social media when you can send him an automated

@Kat message saying if you’d like to chat you can do so on this link and then we’ll put either the all my links link or we put our actual OF / LF link. No swer or Domme will speak or add a client on their personal pages due to safety issues so if a client or POT finds our personal pages we block them and all accounts tied to them on all platforms

What kind of phone does he have? If it’s an iPhone I can message you some ways you can discover what he’s doing even if he’s deleted it lol. That goes for internet search history, apps Hes been using even if not in his phone, deleted iMessages and WhatsApp’s :-) x

@Mia We have androids, and we use Google messages. I tried to look up how to find anything deleted, from apps to messages to goole history, and it was no help. Messages on fb messenger can't be recovered once you delete them. He does get an email whenever he gets a message, but I have noticed there are month long gaps where it shows he didn't get any messages. I share things with him on messenger almost everyday. So either he isn't always getting those emails or he is deleting them.

@Mia I'm pretty sure he just learned last night how to delete his fb activity history. Which is how I knew about all this in the first place. So that also makes me nervous that he will just continue and delete it.