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I’m so sorry you’re going through this.. only you know what the best thing to do is. Many people leave relationships due to cheating but many stay and do therapy and other methods to help work on trust. It’s very hard to trust once that trust is broken. But only you know what feels right. I think leaving is the best idea BUT I know that is easier said than done
hey love. i just want to say im so sorry that you’re going through this, it’s scary and it can feel so isolating but you’re NOT alone. i went through something similar- and the best advice i feel fit to offer is to leave!! you will be okay. your babies will be okay. put yourself first, and realize that you did nothing wrong; both of which i know are easier said than done, but you’re stronger than you realize and it’s moments like these that test your ability to see your own strength. you got this!!
I'm so sorry lovely this is disgusting, you categorically do not deserve this! You should absolutely not waste anymore of your years on this person, you and your children can create a beautiful life just the 3 of you in time, I promise you! I've done it before and sadly, going to have to do it again with an extra child. It's terrifying and heartbreaking, I can imagine all the feelings you're having right now and my heart hurts so much for you. Please don't stay with this oxygen thief, you and your kids deserve so much more.
I think you need to leave. It is easier said than done. It is going to be hard but the relationship wasn't wasted you have two children out of it. You will find someone who treats you right and look back and see it clearer. I know it is so much easier giving advice from an outside point of view. Be kind to yourself. Xx
If it was a mistake and meant nothing, he wouldn’t have cheated for years. You’re worth so much more - take your children and go and find peace and happiness ❤️
Best advice I can give is leave. You and the kids will be okay I promise