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Hello. I am really sorry you are going through this. That sounds really tough . I had a miscarriage 3 months ago, when I was super close to 12 weeks and I totally understand this. I would have been due on the 2nd February so I especially find it hard when people are due around that time. I genuinely feel happy for people who are pregnant, but there is a sense of sadness for myself that it isn’t happening for me tight now. I feel like the loss is getting easier but at the same time I still think about them every single day and feel really sad about the loss at times ❤️
I should also say I’m happy for you to send me a message. I know speaking to other people who have experienced a miscarriage too has really helped me ❤️
I’m sorry you are going through this too. I was due 11 February too. Definitely lots of harder days. Thank you, I really appreciate the message.
@Emma I’m going through a miscarriage right now. The bleeding started last night it’s agony. The hospital is giving me a scan in few days. I kept crying when they were doing tests ect but I know it’s mostly hormones but it is confusing with all these feelings. X
I'm on my second miscarriage this year. It's not easy being around pregnant women or babies at times, sometimes it's better for me to avoid or make excuses not to go places I know there will be young families but having a toddler that's not easy. For my husband it might be triggering to see siblings play together because that's what we hoped to have in our future. You might think you have it managed well & the grief will pop up out of the blue. Sometimes being open to those around you you'll receive support from people you wouldn't expect. It does get easier, there's alot of hormones at play & if your still having bleeding your body needs time to heal x