Sleep tips (nap time)

Has anyone got any tips when it comes to naps? He’s 14 +4 weeks and he’s been napping on us since about 7/8 weeks. I have tried so many times to get him to sleep in his next to me but simply refuses or wakes up 5 minutes later. The most I’ve managed to get is 40 minutes. I’ve tried putting him down sleepy but awake, he just lays there and smiles at me after rubbing his eyes and drifting off on me. I’ve tried putting him down different times after he’s asleep in my arms but he either wakes up during the transfer or moments after 😅 I know he’s still little but I feel like I can’t do anything unless my husband is around to take him. He does fall asleep in a carrier but little man is getting to be a chunk and I haven’t got the greatest back (feels even worse after my c-section) and I’m just wondering if anyone has any magic tips. He sleeps in our room with the blinds shut to try and darken the room. I have one blackout curtain but we have 2 windows so I don’t think it’ll make it much darker. I don’t have any white noise machines simply because I tried this using my phone and it made no difference for us. I have the grow egg in the room emitting yellow/red light with the heater on to make it 20 degrees. I track his wake windows just to see how he’s doing and to avoid over tiredness along with watching for sleep cues (he rubs his eyes and his eyebrows/eyes start to get red) He’s also exclusively formula fed (he drinks 8oz every 4 hours 4 times a day if that makes any difference) I can put him to sleep on me within seconds, just not in his bed 😭
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If he’s full and wakes up in the transfer let him be awake there til he falls asleep. If he’s not screaming bloody murder he’s fine to fuss a little. Or you can try a pacifier to help soothe him and let him go to sleep on his own. I let mine lay there awake and she’ll fuss some and pass out but she’s never screaming bloody murder or anything. If he’s just smiling at you he’s fine it’s not going to be instant it’ll take 5-10 minutes sometimes and that’s ok.

Try putting him on your bed for naps. 40mins is developmentally approapriate at this age. Naps only start consolidating later on

@Nikki I tried this a couple times, I’ve sat by out of view while he fussed but ended up getting louder until he’s crying. I’ve tried nap saving while he’s fussing too because once he’s crying, it’s all done 🤣 He spits his dummy out

Are you keeping him upright when he is napping on you?

Why would you want to sit out of his view? He is so little, there is no harm sitting next to him

Check out the.mama.coach on instagram, she’s got loads of helpful videos x https://www.instagram.com/reel/C_gyyG1S-Bu/?igsh=anZ0ZjE2dTFyaWk=

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DAhWB5GyYGH/?igsh=MTM3czJhNmtqbTl1aQ==

I leave the TV on my LB and works a treat x

My suggestion would be to have some background noise (radio/tv) maybe it's too quiet and he feels "abandoned". To get my LG to sleep in her bed I have white noise and I rock her bed gently whist holding her hand. Then once she's asleep I can stop rocking and let go. But she only.sleeps 30mins every nap.

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