WWYD

For context : My husband says things to me like ‘you are so clingy’ ‘your patter is so shit’ ‘you are so annoying’ etc. He has recently said I’ve become less bubbly and not like my old self at all. So I’ve really tried to make an effort and adopt my old positive, bubbly and care free self. Last night I went to hug him and tried to talk. To him saying you are so clingy and annoying. I just completely shut down after that. I’m not ignoring him today but just have 0 energy to talk to him. How can I become who I was when my husband ignores me when I talk , rolls his eyes at me and makes comments when I talk. Please remember this is a small snapshot of our relationship. He is a good husband. Does a lot for me. But this is something that is so hurtful he does.