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I don’t what to do 🫣
(This might not be allowed) I need some advice girlies. Ever since our child had been born the relationship between me and my partner has changed dramatically. He won’t sleep with me if our child is in the house, we never spend any time together, he is always out of the house when I have a day of work (or even if I am working he stays out until it is time for me to go to work) and he has stopped saying things like “I love you” and stuff, even when I do eventually get him to do anything with us as a family he invites people along it feels like he doesn’t want to be alone with me. I honestly don’t know what to do. I guess my question is has anyone else gone through this is it normal behaviour after having a child or what?
I feel like I have changed so much of my life since having a child and he hasn’t changed at all
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@Karen I’ve tried talking to him about how I was feeling before and all I got in response was “stop feeling like that”
Well I think you have your answer then... if only one person is willing to work on the relationship, it may be time to call it a day x
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I think it sounds like time to have a very important conversation. Second guessing someones behaviour will never work. Direct communication about what you've noticed and how you are feeling as a result will allow you a better chance of knowing what you are facing and what to do next. It may be normal behaviour, in that it's normal for relationships to stop working after having a baby therefore it's much healthier to address the issues.