falling out of love

i married my husband after dating for 4 years and we were madly in love. however being under one roof is very different from how i imagined. the caring man he was disappeared, then came the children and we just have nothing else to talk about. our marriage is just sex. we don’t cuddle, we don’t talk, we don’t enjoy each other’s company after he comes from work. but in bed he would just start to innate sex. i have told him over and over again, i don’t need sex i need quality time, i need u to complement me and make me feel special.. and nothing changes.. I’m unhappy but i know i can’t get a divorce because he’s a good person just not as emotionally loving as i need him to be. and i am loosing my self. i used to wear nice clothes and do my hair and put make up so i look nice and he would never compliment me, now i’m in my pyjamas all day and i can’t be bothered to brush my hair.. im so unhappy!!