Am I in the wrong? Venting.

My husband has just been so down and negative the last few weeks and I was driving my car with him and the baby in the back and took a left turn that he obviously didn’t agree with and he chewed my head off. I just lost it. I screamed at him to “shut the fuck up” and haven’t spoken to him for the rest of the day. We met to put the baby down for a nap, but mostly we’re doing our separate things today. And I’m waiting for him to apologize. Do you ever get like this with your husband? I love him but sometimes he just gets on my fucking nerves and I need to let him know. Ugh..
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No you’re not in the wrong at all. You just look a turn. It’s not the end of the world for him. He should apologize. My husband pisses me off too all the time.

My boyfriend pisses me off a lot as well but when he is in the wrong he will apologize for what he did which is which you need from your husband.

My husband is my person and I’m his, but we fight so intensely sometimes that I truly believe there is a marriage nerve that hits different. I even said in my vows that no one pisses me off one minute and calms me down the next better than he does. And when it’s your spouse, you’re always more stubborn about fighting. Sometimes you just need space to walk away and reflect. Just make sure you communicate after and promise to always make up, that’s the only way it will work.

Thank you so much, everyone. For the understanding, validation and support. I’m so stubborn but I’m also so burnt out. I just need someone on my side even if that’s just Peanut mamas 🖤

Join the club. Bf pisses me off to.

Oh he's definitely in the wrong, this is such a man thing to moan about (the turn I mean lol). My fiance is lovely and will do anything for anyone, but he drives me fucking insane at times, irritates me on an almost daily basis lol

@Rebecca I felt what you said in my soul lol

I agree that he shouldn’t have reacted to you that way when making a turn he didn’t like but the only honest feedback I would give is responding to him saying “shut the fuck up” I get times become stressful but keeping in mind that that is your partner and responding that way can make it to where that is “normal” for you both to respond to each other when moments get stressful. Trust me when I say I feel you and have said in my head plenty of times to my husband just not out loud 😆

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