Venting. Opinions please

So my partner is a workaholic. He always says that he is the provider and I should take care of the baby and the house. He does chores in the house like once a month. And baby at night is mine. He wakes every 2-3h for a bottle and nappy change. I've started working 1 day a week and I told my partner I need to rest previous night. So I make the bottles but he feed baby. Last week I gabe him the bottle and after that I told him baby should be changed, after a few minutes of looking at each other like 'you gonna change him or what', I asked him and he took the nappy angry and told me "Dont make it a habit". Like, excuse me, is your son aswell and Im just asking you for 1 fckng night to look after him so I can have more than 2h sleep in a row. Since then we are in a flatmate mood

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your partner is an asshole

Why do men think they can have these babies and not do shit to take care of them?!?! I hate it for you but you’re not wrong and keep making him accountable that 1 night a week you need help.

@Kamille that part, keep his ass accountable no matter what

That’s not right at all did u have a talk with him to let him know that u need the right amount of rest to be able to take of them because if your exhausted it can make you discombobulated 😕 happy wife happy life this not just a rhyme it’s facts so if u haven’t explained to him how serious it is for u to get the proper rest like your emotional state will be messed up your sex drive will be gone tell him that 🤨

@Sarah totally agree

@Kamille I know. It has been weird since then. Like he expect me to be okay with that

@Ella We've talked about it previously. He knows Im in my last nerve. You just have to look at my face. I spend all day crying mostly because I sooo sleep deprived. And talking about sex drive, his dyed when I gave birth I think. Ee've have our moments but right now 2 months, and counting cause I dont even want him to breath in my direction. Plus is always me who try to intimate

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