Partner wants a second wife!! 😬😬

hmm sounds like he already has another woman in mind and has possibly discussed it with her? saying this because i had an ex bf that said something similar and just didn’t want to be seen as a cheater 😂

Tell him ur gonna get a second husband

@Victoria 😂👍🏽

Are you located somewhere that this is legal? Hve you guys openly discussed poly dynamics before?

I would tell him there is the door, see ya

Leave. He really doesn’t want you anymore and is keeping you around to take care of the child and is wanting to bring another woman in to disguise it as help but he just wants a new woman . Sorry but you need to just leave him.

Get a wife and loose him. Sounds like he's bringing nothing to the relationship or household....

If I’m clearly not enough for him then I’d leave

I would wish my man good luck in finding two wives and get out of there.

Shit like this rarely works. He wants you to give him the go ahead to have an affair (probably already has a woman lined up). If he needs somebody else to be able to treat his current partner right, he ain’t worth it. And what are the rules? Are you allowed a second husband? Because he probably thinks you wouldn’t actually do it and the minute you do he’ll be jealous and start moving the goal posts to make you feel bad.

I'm sorry but he sounds awful. That would be the end for me. You deserve someone who treats you well because they love you, not because they are getting the chance to sleep with other people 🙄

He’s probably gonna do it anyway. I’m guessing he’s a Muslim so it’s permissible even if you’re not okay with it. If it’s a deal breaker for you I would tell him and see if he drops it but keep a close eye since he’s clearly interested in having a second woman in his life. He doesn’t need another woman to “treat you better” and if he really cares about you receiving help he can hire a nanny.

I would tell him to fuck all the way off

correction, i would laugh in his face and then tell him to fuck all the way off

DIVORCE

Get another husband

Ahahahahahahah. That must be a joke. I would not agree with it at all. And tell him he is a free man.

I would say you can have one wife, and have her! And leave. He’s clearly got someone in mind or has been cheating anyway!! or deffo say yeah another husband would be helpful too 😉

Tell him I want a second husband, it would make me happier

I came here to say I hope he was joking 💀 can't wait the 6 weeks

Is he on crack ? Doesn’t sound like a very nice person…. He’s probably already cheating on you … or intends too but doesn’t want to seem like a cheat so is just coming up with this BS solution so he can sleep at night .. Unless you guys have discussed this before and it’s something you’d be happy with but if it isn’t I’d simply tell him No & then leave him as he’s clearly not happy with you for him to even mention it … probably wants the 2nd wife for sex & fun times … then you’ll be the House Wife…. There to cook, clean & look after you’re child

I'd leave. Immediately.

I would say “as long as I can have a second husband to help me out when you treat me like trash and make me happier and feel better.”

I’d get me a 2nd husband!!! Period