In what world are you the asshole? I’m concerned that you’d even think that to begin with, what kind of number has your partner done on you?? 😳 Of course you aren’t being unreasonable! This trip was planned before they booked flights and you knew they were coming. You’re also only spending 1 HOUR away as well, Jesus Christ your partner is being a complete drama llama if he’s railing up about that 😵💫 You don’t have a MIL problem, you have a partner problem. The fact your partner doesn’t stand up for you speaks volumes. This will bite you in the bum later as you never dealt with it from the start. Don’t be surprised if it ends up being the cause of you breaking up. You can only take so much disrespect.
No, you’re not. Go without her. You can spend time with your son alone when you want. Just because she is visiting you doesn’t mean she has to be with you and your baby all the time. ❤️
Go without her, non of them can stop you from doing anything with your son. I'm also very petty so the next time, your husband or MIL say "no" to something keep doing it, and be like well this is how "MILs name" listens to our child when he is saying no he doesn't wanna be touched she doesn't respect his personal space of his body.
If you don't establish boundaries right now, I'm afraid it will get much worse once your babies are older. No, you aren't the asshole in the situation... don't let them tell you otherwise.
Definitely not the asshole! You're entitled to go about your life and do things with your child even though they're visiting x
Go without his mother. You cannot have people come in YOUR home and put their rules and stress on you. Just live your life as usual. No one deserves that you stress yourself for them.