Alone
My baby daddy works from home, yet I feel so alone. I live with my in laws, yet I feel so alone. I’m with my daughter all day long, but I feel so alone. I have a good ass life being taken care of financially, but I feel so alone. I want to feel wanted by my partner and it feels like I’m replaceable even though he’s not saying or doing anything that portrays that. I haven’t been able to satisfy him sexually the past two nights and it makes me feel useless. If I can’t talk about anything other than the baby in my free time and also can’t give him pleasure in my free time what am I doing other than being a nanny.
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I think after giving birth it’s normal to feel alone we had to sleep in a bed alone in the hospital I was in the hospital for a week I think its stressful for everyone caring for a baby maybe talk to your significant other and plan a night out to feel the connection again
I completely agree about the connection. My issue is I do want the sex it just hasn’t been satisfying to him and we’ve stopped before either one of us finish for two nights now
Have an in depth convo about it. I know it can be uncomfortable to a lot of people but talking about sex and what your partner likes and doesn't like is important and there could've been changes for him or you. So it's always good to check in and see what Is working and what isn't.
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I know how you feel! My husband rarely sleeps with me he doesn’t work he rides his skate board a lot I feel disconnected from him he even gets a bit aggressive when stressed out and I just had a c section 14 days ago I feel like him shoving me in to my room made my incision open up I’m in pain and I feel like I mostly take care of our baby and when I ask him to take over he says I’m a bad mom I don’t say anything I just pretend that I didn’t hear him my husband would demand sex every night I felt used and it’s okay to speak your mind and not want it it’s not our job to make the man feel good it goes both ways