Im loosing my marrage i just try to smile

sounds like yall could use counseling maybe

I tried to go with him to marriage counseling but I will have to go by my self he made that clear more than once

then go by yourself so that your therapist can help you either learn how you get him to communicate effectively, or help you realize how much better off you'd be without him.

We all go through this phase, first thing is to go for counseling, second is to talk to someone you know he respects and listens to, not his parents though. Thirdly, love yourself, be happy, put your feelings first, your happiness is important. x

Sometimes it hurts more to hold on then to let go. I’ve been a SAHM for years, and I was looking for a job so I can leave him. He was stressing out on top of everything else. Recently we had things happen and I HAD to kick him out. Although I’m sad/mad/heartbroken about the situation. I feel a sense of relief of not feeling like I have and not stressing over him anymore. Mind you I still have no job. With that said, see a therapist for yourself and get your stuff together to leave. Maybe you need to be on your own a while and he’ll get his stuff together and you guys could try again later on. Whatever you decide, I hope you pick YOU and whatever makes YOU happy.