I feel this. Mine agrees to get a job, goes for the first few days, comes home shitty and just complains, takes multiple consecutive days off during the first few weeks and wonders why he’s fired and how people are shitty so he’s just going to do his thing. We have a 2.5yo, 16mo & I’m 21wks pregnant. I can’t seem to get through to this man either
My partner is on a zero hour contract, we are in the UK and he's earning next to nothing at the moment, nor is even attempting to support me emotionally and I'm 35 weeks pregnant. It's been extremely difficult and we've got into huge arguments this week over literally everything being about him. He called me an f-ing b-itch yesterday and then as soon as he got his payslip and realised it'll be down to me to pay the mortgage again this month, he was as nice as pie. I'm finding it incredibly challenging and the hardest part for me is he isn't willing to change his job as he "enjoys it" but financially it's crippling us. Now that the mortgage and bills is falling on me I can't afford to get things I wanted to, I'm walking around in clothes that barely fit me to provide for the family. I'm lucky I get enhanced maternity so my pay doesn't decrease until Feb, but still! Such hard work
im so sorry youre having to deal with this! it def sounds like the dream of being entrepreneurial can wait! are you living in southern california? i work for a company that gives small business loans to entrepreneurs of color, immigrants, women etc. we may be able to help you all! just need to be owning and operating in socal! message me if interested!