Mil found out I blocked her

So my mil has found out I blocked her from my social media stories. The worst thing is that my hubby did the same about 2 years back and she either hasn't noticed or wasn't bothered enough to care or mention it, but now I've done it, it's a problem. Hubby & her are currently in a text war about it lool. Mil constantly oversteps. She has screen grabbed pics of my LO and reposted without permission & posted my LO in her nappy without permission or asking if I was comfortable with that, which I'm not. I feel like she's only upset because now she can't keep tabs on us and be nosey. We don't see her regularly, she doesn't ask to see our LO on her own accord. Mil and my husband don't communicate unless it's about a family matter or something serious, so I think its just a way she felt she could insert herself in our lives from afar. I was worried she would find out and now she has & I'm not sure how to feel as I don't want any drama but she's just too much!
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Honestly you did what you had to do because she can’t act straight. Let her deal with anger and you focus on your family. The drama will happen regardless unfortunately

Don’t even give it a second thought. You blocked her for a reason, now she’s not able to carry out her shenanigans, tough fucking shit! 😄 If your husband wants to waste his time and energy arguing with her - let him. But YOU don’t give her any head space. Whatever she says or does is no longer your concern 👍🏽

You are not responsible for the feelings of a grown adult. You are responsible for your own feelings and the online safety of your child. Full stop

If hubby blocked her too, you have ZERO to be ashamed of. Maybe she should be asking herself WHY SHE'S BLOCKED

@Neena perfect response! (Yours always are!!) x

Thanks everyone. I'm honestly at a point where I just want some peace & to focus on our little family & don't want to deal with my mil. Apparently she is saying we are shutting her out and is making out like we are not allowing her to see our daughter, which is not true. I think my husband isn't telling me much of what mil was saying over text as he knows I will internalise it get upset as she has already said she doesn't think we are good parents & need to change 🙄 so I'm not gonna pry & just carry on as normal.

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