@Sarah we definitely play, and read and everything else, i spend time with both of the kids, i just can’t carry him in the carrier or a sling bc i bend down a lot and when i wear him i can’t reach down in the sink or washing machine, etc. we do tummy time and other things i just feel like him being on his back a lot will be bad for his head
My baby hates the bouncer but loves her baby swing, so she can watch baby sensory whilst I clean, it keeps her happy and not putting her on her back too much , also going on walks even just to the park or around the area, my baby loves going outside
could you take some time away from the constant cleaning so that you could just take some time to read to him or play with him and sing to him? maybe get your toddler involved with some baby play time?