My husband watches porn sparingly and I’ve always expressed to him even while we were dating that I don’t like him watching it I feel like it’s a form of cheating

For the past 7 years I’ve been finding it on his browsing history and saved to his hidden photos. Recently he told me the website he was watching porn on automatically saves videos and put it’s in the hidden folder but that sounds very sketchy to me Has anyone heard of this ?

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I’m going to be completely honest that he is full of it. At least in my view if a man feels the need to watch porn while he’s married or even in a relationship with a woman then he should just be single. To me the wife or woman a man is in a relationship relationship with is who he should go to to fulfill the sexual need or gratification. If he is struggling with this, then he should seek help for it to make your relationship healthier. If he refuses to seek help for it or stop doing it to me that’s a huge red flag 🚩

I’m not sure if he masturbates too but who just sits down for x amount of time strolling through porn and doesn’t feel any arousal even if it’s just to learn something which it what he tells me I find it BS I would understand if he was reading “how to sex books” or YouTube educational videos on sex . I would actually appreciate that

I can honestly say I agree with you 100%. Like it’s one thing if a man is looking up things like Kama Sutra or looking for ways to do something better in the bedroom but not if he’s just sitting there scrolling and claiming he’s not getting any arousal from it then it’s like what’s the point of looking at it or why can’t he quit looking at it then if he’s apparently not getting any arousal from it.

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