Knowing where baby is when being looked after
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100% I’d be the same. She’s your child so you have every right to know where she is going in the day, even if it’s a spontaneous trip.
I don’t think they need to tell you where she is if in their care unless it’s somewhere far or different from the norm. However in future they should ask your permission first if your sil wants to take your daughter for a walk or wherever and yes that would annoy me. Also I would ask the question if they are struggling to look after your daughter for the whole day as they may find it quite tiring.
If they are in one persons care and they they pass them on to someone else for a day out I’d like a heads up. As I wouldn’t let just anyone look after my child and so if I entrusted them with her and then they let someone else take them out I wouldn’t be too pleased
I would feel the same way She isn’t a toy, she is your baby. Its absolutely understandable you want to know where she is! Being unwell, I know when my daughter was poorly, I didn’t take her out as its cold and not fair on her! Last thing I want to do when unwell is leave the house so you’d probably want her to stay indoors in the warm
That would bother me tremendously. Even if I trust the person, that’s my child and I must know who is taking them and where.
Oh I’d be raging! Well done for not going off the handle though. For me I’d be so reluctant to trust that person again 🤷🏼♀️
I’d want the low down on where my child is at all times. If they have walked to the shops or to the park, that’s different. But I think it’s a safety thing. Like if anything were to happen to anyone, you need to know where they are!
Id be Soo angry that's your child how dare they take them out and not tell u wtf
Also should have added that she hasn’t been well!