Co parenting sucks 😫
Only incognito bc you never know who’s on the app and I’m venting lol, I usually am needing a little breather by the time it’s my sons time to go w/ his dad he goes every other weekend but lately I’ve been getting sad every time he leaves and it’s so annoying ! My son is 3 his dad chose to be mia up until last year literally a full year ago this month after my mom guilt tripped him into showing up but I just hate that my son has a split life my sons dad is with someone and I want to compromise and do some things together like I was going to ask if they wanted to do trick or treating together so we could both see my son but his dad wants to take him to a Halloween party and obviously I can’t go, it just sucks I’m glad he’s more active I want my son to have a really good bond w/ his dad but it just makes me sad
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this is showing that when you emotionally affected when something/someone is absent that means you’ve made an idol out of it and have to just learn how to replace the feeling it gives you with affirmations or hobbies and stuff like that even hobbies can be idols but your emotions are valid just gotta work through how to deal with them effectively and find balance in your desires and needs🙌🏾❤️🔥 you don’t feel anything outside of yourself to make you feel a certain way, all that is extra and an add on🙌🏾 so time away from your son can give you time for self reflection and just time for yourself that we don’t know we need sometimes
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I’m totally in the same situation rn. We split up a year ago, he has a gf and this year is the first year we’re splitting holidays. I’m mainly okay with it because I honestly still hate him and this year I’m getting our daughter for all of the major holidays but I can’t imagine how tough next year is going to be. It seems unfair to give him a big holiday like Christmas Eve & morning when I’m the one who has her most of the time and he never tries to make it 50/50