My bd left again

I’m so over the back and forth. I’m 30 weeks and my bd let me sleep until 1pm and got mad I didn’t cook breakfast. He decided to boil macaroni noodles in a huge saucepan that I normally cook meat for parties in and I couldn’t lift it to strain it. I spent my last little bit of money on this meal and because I asked for help to strain the noodles he got pissed and poured them all over the counter and kitchen floor. While arguing I burned the chicken, and he said he hopes our child comes out with Down syndrome or cerebral palsy and that I die or give birth to a still born. He packed everything and threw his big gulp at me before he left. I’m unemployed and literally have had a hard time finding a job with having so many dr appointments and having to go to a specialist for diabetes. My family said I can move back with them but he’s telling me now that he wants to come for custody once the baby is born. I blocked him on everything but I feel so down about my child missing out on having a dad. I am just sick of the abuse. And walking on eggshells. This pregnancy has been so hard and I have no one to talk to without them saying I told you so.

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Excuse my language but fuck him. Choose yourself and your baby. Move in with family and let them help until you're able to support yourself and your child financially. You don't need the extra stress on an already stressful pregnancy.

What a disgusting vile man and do what’s best for u and baby, also if he’s like this with u what’s he gonna be like with a baby specially when baby’s cry a lot and need a lot of attention x

Wow he’s a disgusting person w anger issues . He wouldn’t even be a good example to ur child. I doubt he will be safe to be around ur child either. I would say keep any proof you have of him being abusive or saying things like that .

Hes saying he will go for custody to hurt you. He more than likely wont. If he does you will win.

A judge will see through his behavior. Good luck to him trying to get custody. Everything always comes to light. I had to make the decision really early on - maybe 2 months into my pregnancy to leave my son’s father. I’m now back home and about to deliver in a couple of weeks (whenever baby boy wants to show) and it’s the best decision I’ve ever made. While I’m working full time and pushing to make ends meet I have the biggest support system of friends and family. This is the happiest I’ve been in idek how long. Put you and that baby first. Fuck him. You deserve more. Your baby deserves more. Time to get serious about what kind of love you want to put on display to your child in the future.

Girl ! You don’t need him! If he can treat you like this how would he treat his child , if he’s already wishes bad on the pregnancy then babyyyyyy that’s a huge red flag! We cancel those evil words in Jesus name you’ll give birth to baby with no issues! Tbh you need your family around you babe I went thru the Same thing with my ex husband and I’ve got two small babies with him the youngest is 4 months. Remember they always come back but this now the time for you to set up your boundaries baby girl let your yes be yes and your no be no! Do what’s best for your unborn child❤️. You’ve got this !

And before I forget , make sure you always document everything when he abuses you.

Wow. I think your child does not need this kind of person in their lives. I would defo move back in with your family, I hope they can provide support, and you can completely move on from this vile human.

You need to do what’s best for you & your baby, which would be leaving. Leave him in the past, if he tries contacting you or anything, then make sure to have evidence of his behavior. It would do best in court but I think guys like this use that as a scare tactic. This is something that you shouldn’t be dealing with pregnant & I wish that you leave. Get into a healthy environment.

he sounds like a huge piece of shit. drop him!! your child doesn’t not need someone like that in their life

What a horrible partner 😞😞😔😠😠 to wish bad on your own child is disgraceful. Don’t take that kind of person back. Go back home with family if they allow it. They will be your rock rn. Don’t depend on this pos 💕

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