Kinda a rant

I’m not sure what to do anymore my husband doesn’t seem to notice when I am struggling and stressed and with our daughter until I started getting upset and frustrated. He waits until he can physically see that I’m upset to ask if I need any help knowing that being 30 weeks pregnant I get irritated very easy! I need some advice on what to do when this happens

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Talk To Him & Tell Him That You Feel That Way. As If He’s Not Paying Attention.

Hi lovely! I’d say tell him exactly how you feel but also for you not to be worried to ask for his help before you reach breaking point. He’s the other parent, he should be helping you especially getting into the heavily pregnant stage it’s more needed which is understandable! Don’t feel ashamed in asking for help xx

Talk to him and ask him for help before you get to the point where you're frustrated. 🫂

I could literally be bleeding and my husband will wait until I ask for help. I think it's just the way he is so I make sure to ask and not expect him to notice that I am struggling on his own. After a while of doing that he did seem to notice some things more, like he learned that one because I asked enough times that it sunk in.

Talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel when he does this and also pray to God about the situation

I would say talk to him but honestly most of the time is pointless really, after talking with some married friends I’ve realised that’s the way most men are including mine, he can see me struggling, needing any kind of help and still would go happily take a nap. What do I do ? I boss him around.

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