A lot going on rn

I have a lot going on rn. My bf and I got into a fight over dinner and I did laundry and did dishes and when I sat down I realized I was bleeding. I went to the bathroom and TMI passed a clot.. I had bleeding at 6 weeks as well, I messaged my doctor and will call again in the morning… I’m 12 weeks along… I’m terrified.. I’ve had 2 losses…I don’t want another..
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To add - it’s been roughly 2 hours and it’s barely touched a pad and turned brown. I can find baby on an at home Doppler very easily, which I know means nothing other than for right now their little heart is still beating which gives me hope to wait and call my doctor tomorrow. The hospital/ER in town is dumber than rocks and will have me sit there for 4+ hours and diagnose me with a threatened miscarriage again and send me on my way which is not helpful. I go to a doctor an hour away. Wish me luck ladies please send love, prayers, hope, whatever please… I’m literally desperate for any and all good vibes… I’m so attached to the little peanut and want nothing more than for everything to be okay. I do not have cramps, still have my pregnancy symptoms so holding out hope. 🤞🏻❤️

after reading the comment wait till tmr. the ER here is the same way and literally told me i was crazy till i went to my OB the next day and they jumped on the issue.

@Klarra you can easily hear the difference, umbilical cord sounds like whooshing and heartbeat sounds like horse hooves ☺️

ER probably can't do anything for you anyway. Trust and hope. And rest.

@Klarra My Ib last apt actually had me find the baby when I told her I found them on an at home Doppler. She had me walk her through the sounds I was hearing and I was right. I thankfully am pretty good at finding them. It doesn’t mean they are not in distress, but just enough to wait till morning. 😮‍💨 thank you for praying for us 😭

@Ella No, I know it’s just I want answers as to why I keep bleeding.. this is technically my 3rd time bleeding with this pregnancy and I never had it with my first… only with losses.. so my brain is wired to think I’m losing them… 😭

Bleeding in early stage and middle stage is normal honestly aslong as it’s not a big clot with extra blood u should be okay. If u want go to the er doesn’t matter whether u want to wait or not exc it’s always good to make your healthy baby is staying on track during pregnancy I went to the er 4 times terrified at everything and they told me “it’s better to come in then not and something happens”

@Audrey Oh… I went to the ER when I had bleeding the second time when I thought I should have been roughly 7 weeks… before blood tests or ultrasounds or anything the doctor told me pretty much me coming in in early pregnancy was a waste of their time, and a room because even if I was losing them there was nothing they could do other than an ultrasound and a good luck… the hospital/ER near me is a joke. 😞 Thankfully my doctor office opens in an hour and I sent a message and I’ll call..

You going in is not for them. It’s for you girl. It don’t matter what they say ignore them it’s only for your peace and your knowing if they think it’s a waste oh well it’s absolutely not a waste to u and that’s all that matters is knowing your baby is okay and baking and hearing those little beats ❤️ early pregnancy does cause some bleeding aslong as it’s not a lot you are fine but again going to check on your baby is not for them it is for you girl 🫀

@NurturedNature She’s wonderful, thankfully I found a great OB this time around. Hopefully all is good. 😭🤞🏻

I called today and I have an ultrasound scheduled for Monday. They reassured me it’s likely nothing as bleeding in early pregnancy is normal. It’s still brown and barely there for the most part, so I’m keeping hope 😭

To try to give u a little hope my first pregnancy I spotted throughout. I didn't even know I was pregnant for 3 months cuz I would still have a light period. The second was the complete opposite.

@Tina Thank you!! My first was nothing like this… it’s scary 😭 I appreciate you ❤️

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