@Candy yes I have e but nothing seems to be changing don’t really know what to do anymore 😫
Honestly sounds like you’d be happier without him. Stop doing his washing, stop doing his ironing. Don’t cook for him every night. Yes he works but it’s his house too so he has responsibilities he’s not a child. If you carry on you will burn yourself out and become resentful towards him. Please have another chat and tell him how serious you are
I think relationships are like kids. You need to treat them with kindness but to be firm when needed. I would talk to him again and make it clear there will be consequences to his behaviour. I am not saying leave or something (families needs work and especially when a LO is involved), but no more dinner, no more cleaning after him etc. Being a mom is a full time job too and its not even paid, plus its a 24/7. So you need to establish who is doing what and when (cooking, cleaning, shopping, time off etc).
That’s awful. Sorry you’re going through this. Have you discussed this with him?