Stopping breastfeeding, feeling depressed please help 😭

Hi ladies, after a very tricky emergency c section birth and struggling at first to get breast feeding established, 3 bouts of mastitis with the last one ending up with hospitalisation, I have made the decision to stop breastfeeding. My baby is one year old and I am returning to work. I feel so depressed about it but I have to do this now. Please don’t tell me to keep feeding or pump as I feel I need to stop for my mental and physical health. I have loved breastfeeding and feel like it gave me faith in my body and connected me so closely to my baby. Please tell me I won’t always feel awful for stopping our journey.
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Stopping a journey is definitely hard but just look back on your achievement. You have done great for the past 1 year inspite of all the troubles. Mental health should be the priority as the baby need Mama not just her milk ♥️

@Keerthivasini thank you I appreciate your comment

If you are ready to stop then you should. A year of breastfeeding is a phenomenal accomplishment which you should feel proud of. Now the emotional side of things will be tricky. Weaning depression is a very real thing as your hormones regulate, I would have a discussion with your partner or a family member to let them know what’s happening so they can support you emotionally. I recently weaned my two year old and am breastfeeding a newborn and I still experienced some weaning blues You won’t feel awful forever and hopefully in a couple of weeks you’ll start to be able to look back with pride. Good luck on this journey lovely x

A year of breastfeeding Is an achievement! You've done so well mumma.

@Terri thank you so much for this. My emotions are already all over the place and I’ve spoken to my partner about this thank you. 🙏

@Phaedra thank you so much it feels so bittersweet

No need to thank us, make sure you look after yourself lovely. It’s definitely a bittersweet time 🥹

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