Worried about partner cheating/doing something
My partner is very secretive with his phone. If I touch it even by mistake thinking it’s mine he immediately takes it back. He always puts it down face down. He turns his do not disturb on and off depending on if I can see his screen or not. I invited him to lay his head on my lap earlier and he immediately put DND on and has since turned it off now that we are in separate rooms. It’s just weird. I don’t know if i’m just being really paranoid but I can’t stand it and I don’t want to come off crazy if I ask him about it. Would you be worried? Would you ask? Would you look through it? I don’t know what to do but it’s driving me mad
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I'm sorry but red flags for sure 😔
I can see a lot of red flags....
You’re not crazy or paranoid. You’re responding to real things you’re seeing. I would raise it - you don’t have to mention cheating, just that you feel like he’s hiding something from you, which is a fact
Girl to girl either talk to him or go through his phone! I know it’s an unhealthy thing to do but if it’s going to reassure or affirm your suspicions then you need to do it for your own sanity. My ex was very secretive and had lots to hide, not saying yours will be the same, it may well be innocent but it was only by me secretly going through his phone that I found anything otherwise that man would still be lying to me to this day
What milly said !
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Also the other day his phone was on the side and I genuinely thought it was mine and saw a notification from someone on the screen which I read and didn’t recognise the username (That wasn’t anything strange it was just one of his friends I didn’t recognise) but I was like “who the hell is that? Oh it’s your phone….who is that though? “ and he got really anxious about it. It drives me mad