Holy moly someone tell this gets easier?!

I was LOVING 2 under but recently I'm finding it so hard I'm struggling to enjoy it as much. My first is 22 months and tantrums about so many things that are unavoidable like getting dressed and getting in the car. My baby is 3 months and sleeps well at night but hardly naps in the day and only if I'm standing holding him. I am SO TIRED even with baby sleeping well at night. I can't eat properly, I end up skipping lunch most days then I'm so tired I lose my appetite at dinnertime/ no motivation to cook. Feel like I just want to crawl into a dark room and stay there for a week.

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Wow it will get better I’m sure !! One day your gonna look back and miss these days sounds cliche I know but definitely true

I feel ya! Baby wearing was a lifesaver for me when my littlest love was in Velcro baby mode. Mine are also 19 months apart and their relationship has taken the best turn possible the past month or so with my oldest trying to help soothe the baby when she’s sad or include her in play by handing her toys 🥹

It gets easier! My daughter is the same way. She is 21 months old and my son is 4 months old. She is so jealous lately and the fits are a lot. I let her help me with everything if she wants. Give your toddler some choices. To get them in the car, my daughter LOVES crawling over the seats to get into her car seat so I let her do that before I get my son in.

girl, same 🥲 my first is 23 months and my baby is 4 months, and due to my toddlers random outbursts of tantrums, my baby doesn’t get to sleep throughout the day so she gets overtired & wants to be held, then my toddler kicks off because he can’t be held 🫠 this is a daily occurrence & it mentally drains me because i feel like i’m not doing right by either of them 🤦🏻‍♀️ the mom guilt is swallowing me whole recently, and i feel like a bad mom at least 5 times a day, every day. you’re not alone x

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