Early pregnancy

I was told after my 2 miscarriages that as soon as I get pregnant to call early pregnancy unit . I think you should give them a rims , tell them you lost 5 babies previously and that you have been having pain and they will see you x I hope everything will be good 🩷

@Nicol I’ve spoken to my old midwife and because I haven’t had 3 in a row consistently I can’t do anything “it’s just a waiting game” I’m just freaking out about the shoulder pain and because I’m so early they won’t be able to see anything in there and then it’ll be blood tests and I have a son already and I’m not aloud to take children up there I don’t love round family so can’t just leave my son to go and do that x

Oh it’s awful 🥺 we lost our last baby at 17 weeks so maybe that’s why I got seen straight away . But yeah our bereavement midwife to call straight away and so they did 3 HCG tests and then an ultrasound at around 5 weeks x and I have seen lots of women there with children , same with the ultrasound department they can’t deny to see you if you bring your child , not everyone have family around to help them with childcare . I took my son one time too because I had no other option and they were completely fine with it x no questions asked .

@Nicol I’m going to call them up in the morning o think can I just ring emergency gynee? Or do I have to go and sit in A&E it’s just the shoulder pain I’m getting no other pains but it’s been there like 3 days now my neck is a bit stiff too as I did fall asleep on my sofa the night before I done the test as before that I was completely fine and I was a week late I just didn’t want to test as I was to scared as I’ve had 5 miscarriages… and dont really want fo keep going through that as its so mentally draining x

Any update ? x did you get through?

@Nicol no I didn’t but I see my cousin she’s a midwife she had a feel and things and said if I was having ectopic I’d be in pain with it and she felt my neck and said it was stiff so I slept on it funny 😂health anxiety is shit 😂xx