I’d tell him to get off his ass and help. 6 hours a day hardly warrants him to do fuck all the rest of his 18 hours a day. Living his best life. My partner works 10-12 hours 5 days and then on his 2 days off he has our daughter so I can go to work.
I’ve said that he needs to help and apparently this is my job, what a job that’s 24/7 every day? My youngest isn’t sleeping either at the min so it’s harder. He just sits on his phone or his computer once he gets home from work. Oh then says he’s off out at end of Oct.. when do I get to go out to enjoy some me time. Xx
He sounds misogynistic and lazy. Seems like you’re already a single parent, so I would just get rid (in your situation) you deserve some balance and happiness in your life
@Abbie I feel like a single parent and living with a stranger xx
I can imagine! I’m sorry if what I’ve said sounds harsh, but it comes from a good place! My best friend is in this kind of relationship and it kills me to see her so unhappy xx
@Abbie no of course it doesn’t I know I need to leave not just for my sake but for kids aswell it’s just so hard to leave 😩 xx
I was in single mom vibes. Crying for 4 days now. I'm with a 2 year old . No job. No money. No friends. It is hard. But it was enough. My heart deserves to be loved. Just to bring a bill at home is not enough. And zero empathy and understanding. 😢 I just just need to be kind to myself. Bug hug mama 💕 🤗 you deserve the love you need. You deserve the appreciation. And time to reconnect with yourself ♥️ Couples therapy?
Hand him his kids, get in the car, and go. Go get a coffee, your nails done, hit the book store, drive around blasting your favorite music whatever. Just give him HIS KIDS and go take yourself a nice break.
I don’t think that’s right and I would explain to him the situation so he can see that it’s not fair on your end. Remind him he needs to do his part or you want to separate