Advice please 🥴

It’s been abusive I’m ready to go. Heal, and let good bring into my life what I deserve. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

As the child of a parent who “stayed for the kids” Don’t. We grow up seeing a toxic relationship and we end up believing that’s how relationships should be and that’s how we should be treated in a relationship. Which has given me more trauma that I’ve had to process myself. We (kids) absolutely see how bad the relationship is as we grow older. Also. You wouldn’t want your child to grow up thinking that what their dad is doing is right. And potentially getting some of those personality traits themself

I am in the same situation but I can’t I anymore your child needs you to be happy and what happened yesterday his words were all I needed to know this is done and how he really feels my DMs are open

Never stay with anyone because of the children. The children will see, sense and feel your sadness as time goes on. Of course we do not get into a relationship to think in the end it'll end, however things unfortunately happen within a relationship where it does come to an end. You've stated its been abusive, you need to put yourself first and take care of yourself. This will be by taking out the toxicity which in this situation is your partner. Do it for yourself and your children and leave this relationship, no child should see any type of abuse, and you shouldn't be going through it 🤍

I’m in the same situation ! I don’t want to make the wrong choice for my child and I’m also a stay at home mom so I’m in a really tough situation because she’s eight months and obviously if I leave, I’m going to have to figure out working school getting a good career to take care of my baby so I’m terrified and feel like I can’t do it. I also dread not being with my baby all day and night. I’m so scared that it almost makes me want to just stay so I can be with her all the time so I feel you on all of this and it’s so hard

@Stephanie that’s why I stayed my daughters will be 3 it gets much hard cause now she ask for her father I didn’t want to come home yesterday after our argument and she kept asking for her father but I know it’s done after yesterday and it’s scary but I can’t anymore

If staying feels bad for you; it’s feeling worse for your kids. Sticking together for the kids is never the answer