Umm excuse me!!! “Suck it up and do your job” I read something the other day that said on average a Mother’s Day starts at 6:30am and ends at 8:30pm over the 7 day week that equates to 98hrs. On average his week is 40hrs. There’s a hell of a big difference for starters. Secondly he is a FATHER! Parenting isn’t one persons “job”. It’s both your jobs and even if it was your “job” you’re entitled to a sick day! What a horrible thing to say!
I'm sorry but i would not tolerate this at all. If my husband said that to me I'd seriously be reconsidering our marriage. He's a parent and your partner, his 'job' is to care and provide for you and your babies, which means when you're sick he needs to step up!! Work doesn't come before family. You need to rest and get better because without you what the hell will he do then???
He is not right! Suck it up and do your job!? Firstly it is not YOUR job to always be the default parent. Second of all when he's ill has he not taken a day off work? Next time he's unwell and needs to take a day off you say that to him, say "suck it up and do your job" and send him to work. Which is his actual job. And finally, he is a dad and a husband! That is also his "job" so how about HE "suck it up and do his job" I'm literally fuming for you
He’s not right. If he felt sick he would stay home from his ‘job’. Raising a child is a 2 person job, not just yours x