Cheating husband??

Hi. So I’m 19 and my husband and I have been together for almost three years and we have a 1 1/2 year old boy. He has a severe 🌽 addiction and our relationship started with him engaged and he found me online (ofc I didn’t know he was 💍) well I feel in my heart that he’s either cheating or watching 🌽. I’m thinking of leaving him but I just need confirmation of one of these things so I’m strong enough to go. Is anyone willing to flirt with him and see what happens? (He only has WhatsApp and Facebook)
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What the actual......

absolutely no hate towards you at all with my comment, but girl if you need someone to “test him” because you’re worried about him cheating or think he has then I truly believe you should just leave anyway and also the fact he was talking to you while engaged is a red flag in itself let alone considering those 2 things together. The way they come is the way they go 😅 & as for the 🌽 addiction, as someone who’s ex partner was one, unless they get proper help for it and want to change, I can tell you wholeheartedly they do not stop no matter how much you talk to them about it or they claim they have/will, they just get sneakier

I agree with shanique. Testing him will result in one of two things. Either A) he's cheating and you leave or B) he's not cheating and if he finds out what you did the trust in your relationship is shattered. Neither of these ends well. It's not worth it. If you already suspect it then there's no trust and not likely much hope for the future of your relationship. Not trying to burst your bubble or anything, but there's a lot of red flags here.

Trust your gut & leave boo

So he was talking to you while he was engaged and you didn't know. But he knew! He knew he was engaged, doesn't that tell you something..Also you married him, so what's changed now? Didn't you always know that he was capable of doing this when you found out he was engaged?

I can do WhatsApp

Man she did not come up on here for yall opinion on her relationship. No body perfect and everybody go thru shit. She’s feeling insecure she doesn’t know if she’s tripping or know for sure what he doing. For anyone who ever been cheated on it’s the worse feeling in the world.

Always remember, how you get them is how you lose them mommas. You’re so so young. This is mind blowing to me actually. If you want some help. I’m here though :). Then once you find out, leave!!

Hi I want to firstly apologise. My first message was written in a tired, aggy mess from a sleepless teething child. I should not have written a response until later on. I'm not going to give you my opinion on young motherhood/marriage - I've been in that position myself and you haven't come on here asking for unsolicited advise. What I would say is that you want to leave so just leave. Don't bother with this honey trap, it's pointless.you are strong enough to leave without it

Idk why everyone is telling her to leave him even if he hasn’t cheated. If my husband left me and took my children because I could have maybe cheated but didn’t bother to find out I would be ruined. This is a women’s life here yall. A babies family unit. Not just fun online.

@Cassie She's said in the post she's thinking of leaving him anyway but wants confirmation of his wrong doing so she's strong enough to leave with a reason rather than just upping sticks

No judgment, girl. If you want help, count me in. I’ve done it before for a friend… as long as you don’t hate me afterwards, I’m down.

@Nickky thank you for this! I know this is messy af but that’s not what I’m asking!!

@Cassie this!! Thank you 🫶🏻

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