Am I just being over sensitive?

What is the message before “then do what you want”?

And now he's not sharing location anymore

Mmm I mean this respectfully but I think you are being a little over sensitive. He was trying to be sweet and you kind of dissected what he said… He was tired and didn’t want to start an argument before going to sleep. Don’t do anything. Relax and breath. Go to sleep. It will be ok. Tomorrow he will most likely reach out.

Maybe but why turn off location then? He knows I hate that especially when he's traveling

Probably to get you mad because in his eyes you “started” an argument.

What is he travelling for?

Work he's on the road for months at a time

This is giving emotional manipulation… i don’t think you are being over sensitive

I don’t think saying I hate that I love you is being sweet at all. It sounds like he’s mad he loves you like he’s tired of it “but he loves you” girl not only that but I see you feelin like too much for him I think there’s some communication issues like you’re both not on the same page. I think he really does love you but the relationship is tiring him (you too) out

Idk if yall are married or not but you can have him set up as an emergency contact in his phone for if something happens to him. I understand him too. If every time he’s gone, he feels like you act up that’s not good. Maybe it’s a trust thing or just anxiety. If it is anxiety, I’d see someone for that cuz there is a root cause to that and meds if you want that. If I was in your shoes, me personally, I’d self reflect and see. If not has ever happened, no cheating or accidents at all for the whole relationship, then I’d know the issue is with me not him. But idk all the details and I don’t want you to feel like I’m blaming you either. So just self reflection independently

I'm gonna be 10000% honest... it seems like you are in the wrong. he's out there paying YOUR bills and you just keep complaining about stuff when he's not home. let the man work ffs he's a grown man and can look after himself. he's stated multiple times you aren't putting in the same effort he is. you need to stop worrying about his location and worry about your kid instead.

I think you're being over sensitive. From the messages it seems like he is trying everything he can for you but in his eyes it's not enough so he is saying do what you want because he feels like he is fucking things up and you haven't been trying with him for months. Also when he is home it's not a nice atmosphere for him and I can assume for you too. Try and make things fun again and try not to stress the small stuff