Sex life?

It sounds like he’s more interested in his own needs in general- men like him just expect sex with out actually doing the work to earn it… you deserve better

Otherway round in our household, I've been so busy sahm with baby & cleaning that when my hubby gets home, I'm all over him 🤣

Haha normal this is majority of men. I feel u need to communicate to ur man about how u feel cause men don’t get it

@Daisy I want to feel this way, how do you have energy ??😫. It’s like the second he walks in he’s already initiating for the night

@Vanessa I try to. He then keeps saying I deprive 😅😅

@Lyss he’s a great guy, I feel like he expects the women I was before had a baby. Seems he doesn’t understand how much things changed since the.

Yeah i understand my husband same way he has a high sex drive mine is lower so i try my best to not deprive him it’s so hard when u don’t have energy to be in the mood. But sex is very important in a marriage and what i learnt is men connect to emotionally through sex.

incognito: my other half and I maintain a strong connection and always work on our relationship as well as ourselves. When the baby naps, sometimes I nap or I do yoga, or cook, clean or whatever until babies awake. I'm still pretty clucky and already want another baby 😂 like don't get me wrong I'm super tired half the time he gets home but I cannot physically say no as I don't want too (if that makes sense?) The only time I think I ever said no was after birth for 9 weeks ish.

Incognito: Show him what it's like. If he has sick or annual leave get him to take 4 days off and get him to watch yours baby and (you the mumma don't help go do your own thing) after the 4 days, watch him grovel and apologise as he realises how full on it is and mentally draining.

so true hahahah they don’t get it hahha they really and truly don’t haha!

He pokes me half the time, I grab him the other half 😂 we both enjoy sex, initiation is 50/50 here. Sex 2-3* a week. I crave his touch and affection (BF on top) so I was rarely touched out.

@Daisy he’s a business owner so he literally works everyday 😭. Once a month I get my nails done and he says it’s the hardest thing to watch I’m that measly little hour. Yesterday he asked me to hold the baby so he can enjoy cookies with both hands and I was twitchingggggg at that. I almost never have two hands to eat

@Kellie I need to start initiating, he recently complained I never initiate 😂 but he doesn’t even give me the chance to. It’s like every single minute as soon as he sees me after work

Yea i don’t initiate either i think cause i am so used to the guy initiating in every relationship i had. But i started learning in marriage i have to really initiate sometimes