Silent treatment

My husband did do the same thing as me after a heated and intense argument. I did confront him about it when he seemed calmer. He told me he did so because he wanted to avoid starting another argument, and he's afraid that whatever he'll say will trigger me to get angry again. He prefers to stay quiet until he's very sure I'm calmed and happier (me smiling and laughing is a cue to him that I'm calmer). When I became calmer, he then tried to talk to me or joke a little with me. After a few days, we then only sat down and talked about our argument and disagreement. Men think & react very differently from women. That's what I learned after marrying my dear husband. Tolerance, patience, and love are most needed during this phase of time.

But this has been going on for 3 days now it's ridiculous, he's talking to the baby but not me ,so annoying but also so sad

Well, try to stay calm at all times. Maybe you can try to be the first to initiate a romantic gateaway/romantic massage session just for him..remind him how you two used to be so in love with one another. Spark up the love flame (eventhough ure equally mad at him). Men tend to have their ego but we women are stronger. Be the cooling water to put out the fire. Maybe a simple sorry or a peck on his cheeks will melt him inside..eventhough u did nothing wrong. Give him some time..be patient. It's tough..I know..but patience and tolerance will help you in the long run.

Yes I had to break the ice and we spoke it out , I think he's a lot my insecure and sensitive that's I thought but I told him he has to communicate and can go silent it's childish and won't reSolve anything