Disrespect

Yes! My mil lets my sd control her my sd flat out tells every adult she knows more than them and will argue with you about everything and when my husband tries to get on to her my mil chimes in (in front of sd) and tells him not to that her exact words “all your little girl will do when she thinks of you is how you got onto her and you don’t want that” its so annoying she believes my sd can do no wrong

@Macy my sd has flat out told her grandma “you wont woop me” and gets an attitude. Then she wants to raise her voice at you. His mom is delusional. She always turns it into “she doesnt have the life her sister does so take it easy on get” thats not an excuse to be disrespectful lol. Ive disengaged.

@Kel I’ve heard that too it’s so annoying my husband and I have two other kids and she always says well she doesn’t have her mom and dad together anymore as an excuse. She flat out threw a clothes hanger pretty hard at our other daughter who was maybe 11 months at the time and hit her and when we went to get on to her she ran to her grandma and then we got lectured and told “it’s normal” she’s just acting out because she’s jealous and then it all goes back to her siblings get to be with their dad every day

@Macy yeah I am about sick of that excuse. I told my husband if she keeps letting her get away with things she is just going to grow up to be a disrespectful adult and when it bites her where the sun don’t shine im just going to laugh because I saw it happening. It makes my husband feel like they don’t respect him as her parent. His mom thinks she is the matriarch so what she wants comes above all. She is a narcissist. Its already bad enough my SD mother is bat shit crazy and is teaching her the wring things. She cant even get her mental disorder in check. She likes to blame everyone for her own downfalls. Its all rubbing off on their daughter.