Marriage And Children
Show your support
Here’s a tip only do childcare no house work… or keep that to a bare minimum.. only cook mon-wed . Thursday have left overs, fri-sat order food, Sunday husband cooks or everyone fends for themselves
Personally for me I learned that in order for me to be happy with my partner he needs to be an equal partner n team player. 1 be loving and emotionally nurturing to me n baby 2 provide financially if I’m staying at home to care for child or vise versa if he stays home . (This is personal but I do not wanna work until baby is 18m or while I’m pregnant unless I really have to ,I will part time remote) 3 he needs to be an adult and pick up after himself and have chores around the house ( maybe not daily chores but some that he could do every other week) also cook at least once per week 4 he has to parent when he’s off work . Must be able to do everything I can with baby other than breastfeeding. If I’m rested he deff won’t have to do much around the house or with kid but thats hard to come by during pregnancy and at least the first year of postpartum
It's only brought us together more and we're happier for it
Marriage and children are hard work but only works if you and hubby are on the same page and 50/50. Try sitting down and talking about it before you guys fall completely apart.