Baby boys arrival

My baby boy arrived at 3:02am yesterday and it's been drama ever since. He ended up in the NICU and I just can't stop crying over it. I want my baby but I cannot see or hold him because I have to be monitored as well as I had hypertension, diabetes and preeclampsia. They literally will not let me do anything. They didn't even wanna let me eat here at one point. I didn't get to eat until 10am and that was after much fighting and crying. This is my 3rd baby and this birth story has been so traumatic for me I don't even know what to do with myself. I had nurses even yelling at me while I was in labor telling me to "hold him in" to "not push" and putting their hands up my vagina to stop the baby when he was coming out. I just want to beat everyone up, take my baby and go home.

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I’m so sorry to hear this, those nurses sound horrible 😢 wishing you a smoother recovery and a quick reunion with your baby you are a strong mama 💗

I am so sorry to hear all this. The part where the nurses told you to "hold him in" or "not push" especially. Your body will MAKE you push. Where the heck did they go to medical school and not know that? Women in comas can give birth for crying out loud. Their body will push for them when the body want to, as does every other woman's body. You can help push when your body is making you obviously, but it will push whether you want to or not. These nurses saying this is like them telling someone about to crap their pants to hold it when it can't be held anymore. Your body will MAKE you regardless of if that person wants to or not. Medical staff like your nurses and such get me SO mad. They should know better!! I'm praying you both get to go home ASAP and that you both are absolutely healthy and doing better ASAP. Praying for you!

@Bree yeah they also told me to not scream and not to use my epidural. I was in so much pain. Worst experience ever and this is my 3rd delivery at this hospital. I hate what everything changed to since they merged with another hospital. Every prenatal appointments were stressful and a battle. I finally was taken off the magnesium and brought to the baby mother section but my son is still in the nicu. I just want to take my baby home.

I’m so sorry :( I hope your baby is out of NICU soon

That sounds like a NIGHTMARE. I’m so sorry you went through all that. I hope you have held your baby boy by now and if not, I hope it is very soon. I hope you’re home. I wish I could give you a hug. I’m praying you have a better day ♥️ you did good♥️

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