Can’t stop crying

I feel this so much. I am so sorry for your frustration and hurt. Some women are just resentful and filled with hate, and you’re 💯 right, it’s the poor kids that miss out. I am so sorry. It absolutely sucks. Can your partner threaten to take her back to court to enforce the order?

@Tash honestly he’s just as bad. His solution is “watch what happens now” and nothing ever happens!! I told him he is to go to the pick up spot at 6pm on Friday and if she is not there he is to call the police and make a report, then go to the court and file. I’m so over it. I posted here before that she demanded we take him to sports every weekend we have him, ruining some of our little weekend getaways. Fine we did it, and when that doesn’t work she escalates to something else. It’s so frustrating.

Girl your post raised my blood pressure. I’m so sorry you guys are going through this. People always rant about their baby daddies wrong them and then there’s bio mom being this bitchy. I hope things get better.

Sadly I think that’s all you can do. Tell her that is your intentions beforehand and why, allow her to make the decision, then if she doesn’t turn up follow through and lodge with police and courts. 😢 it absolutely sucks.

I couldn’t imagine treating my kids step mom the way my step kids bio mom treats me. She acts like I don’t exist and before the court order she tried to spend as much time with him as she could. But hated me when I came along because it was our little family and not hers anymore. Even though she’s married. She treats me horribly

@Kayla I’m going on three years of this same crap. She’ll get quiet for a while (probably when she’s sleeping with someone else) then comes back full force. She doesn’t want me near the child at all, and said she’ll make sure of it over her dead body. I reached out to her trying to be cordial and she ignored me and texted my fiancé saying it’s disrespectful to allow his little girlfriend to text her 🙄. Meanwhile, because I’m in the picture my fiancé is basically choosing me over his son or atleast that’s what she’s trying to have him do. It’s terrible. My ss loves being with us and around my kids. Loves sleeping at my house. Loves it all and she just can’t stand it.

@Rema literally. He’s just trying to be a dad. And she won’t have it, but then tell him he’s a shitty dad because he’s choosing his “fake” family over her and their son. It’s infuriating. I really feel like women that act like this need to be held accountable. They are mentally abusing/damaging the child.

Sadly you’ll just have to take her back to court to withhold the order - such a waste of time and energy for everyone. 😞 she doesn’t get to dictate what happens during your / your partners time either, so I’d just ignore that part. This all sounds so stressful, the poor kid

@Tash that’s what bothers me the most. Coming to us is like a mini break for him. He has so much fun. When it gets towards the time to go back to her his anxiety just builds and builds you can see it on his face. My fiancé wants to have a mental eval done on her and the child (unfortunately). It’s going to be the only way to stop this