It’s not your fault love 🥺, I think he’s jackass tbh because that was not fair to you. Your god is not punishing you and everything he’s said to you was probably the ugliest things he could have and no one deserves that kind of treatment.
Not being mean, but maybe you’re not pregnant because God doesn’t see fit for him to be a father. Maybe God is tryna give you the signs to move on.
I love how he only sees you needing the responsibility of being more responsible while he can’t even cook and compares you work to going to gym like that’s going to befit the both of you, him working out 🤣 what a man child Maybe you miscarried because he couldn’t be bothered with ensuring your well being enough to relax and focus on rest so ya have a healthy pregnancy ALSO please keep in mind all early miscarriages happen because of something being wrong with the sperm not the egg, it’s not your fault
He has rocks for brains. I'm with Ms. Keisha on this one. You are not the problem
I think the only thing not "ready" about this situation is that this guy is not a good partner and doesn't sound like the person you should have a baby with.
Say it louder “THEY ARE ADULT RESPONSIBILITIES”. Also do not have a baby with this man.
Sounds like he’s the one that wants the mothering tbh. What a disgusting thing to say, what awful actions to take and what a nasty attitude to have for the person he’s meant to love and protect. If he wants a maid, send him back to his mother’s house. I agree with @Keisha it’s him whose not ready and it’s you who deserves better than that human for a partner xx
Thank you ladies for the comments, this situation is one I'm trying to get out of but it's hard. So much as happened in the passed few months @Keisha I thought the same thing just couldn't say it at the time just I was just shocked he said that to me. Not to mention when I had the miscarriage idk how she found out but his bm made a joke about it on FB 😔. And I can't send him back to his mama house cause she sadly passed away a while back and I was the one who was helping take care of her before she passed..
And a few months before she passed his mom asks what you don't want to have a baby by a "distinctive feature he has " man like that is supposed to make me want to have his baby more. I don't know if he had told her about it which I'm pretty sure he did cuz they used to talk everyday they were really close. At that time that comment just made me feel weird and ganged up on.
Please don’t have kids with someone like that… I’m begging you 😬
That was a really horrible thing for him to say. You’re right in stating he needs to share household responsibilities. I’m so sorry he went there. So wrong and ugly. I get that he went through trauma with his first loss also but it’s just not appropriate to compare. I’m sorry he’s doing all of that.